Individual Skype sessions in English

Only for English speakers based outside of the Netherlands/Flanders


I’m not out to make friends with you. Neither to hurt you. But I can be quite the asshole at times. Anyway, among other things, I’m here to point out stuff you might not like to hear, to make clear what is unclear, to take away what you believe to be true, to destroy your defenses, your so called knowledge and so on. And of course to motivate and support any genuine love for truth.

So buckle up, be honest, as open as you can. Be silly, be wise, be to the point. Bring a sense of humor and don’t be too easily offended. Hurry up, take your time, allow things to happen (or fight me 🙂 ).

Be warned: I’m not responsible for any awakening, insights, transformational or frustrating experiences, temporary insanity, weight loss, hernia’s, joy, paranoia, panic attacks, bliss, or other physical, mental, social or economical troubles or benefits that may or may not occur because of interacting with me.

It’s all up to you, and you are not what you believe you are.

U can mail me at:  (please don’t call), it’s practical to state in your mail where u live, so I know your time-zone which makes scheduling a Skype session easier. I don’t do talks through phone.

Duration and fee

A Skype session takes 40 minutes max. It might be 5 it might be 38. It’s not about time really, but about what’s necessary, and that may take as long as it does.

A session will cost $100,00 and is to be payed before the session takes place via PayPal account.
A session will cost $150,00 or even more if you’re a wealthy type of being – this immediately is an honesty check for ya! It’s up to you! (all in US $).

Not being there at the set time and date for whatever reason does not automatically get you your money back or grant you a free rescheduling. Being late doesn’t move up the clock. When your 20 minutes late, there’s only 20 minutes left (max). I don’t say this to be unfriendly, just to be clear.

U can mail me at:  (please don’t call, but just email me).


Your job is to be, not to be this or that. - Sri Ramana Maharshi
When you have discovered something, go deeper. - Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj
The perfect meditation is free from trying to develop certain qualities and the discarding of others. - Shabkar Lama

Rules of thumb

  • See things as they are.
  • Feel everything fully.
  • Think for yourself.
  • Undermine your belief system.
  • Love Truth more that you love your ‘self’.
  • Be clear, aware and to the point.
  • Question everything.
  • Know this: teaching is a device, a medicine, but it’s not the truth.
  • Don’t jump to conclusions, things may be more of a paradox than the mind likes it to be.
  • Discriminate between observations and interpretations.
  • Destroy what seems sacred.
  • Listening and reading can not occur when the mind is desiring a certain outcome.
  • Anything temporary is not IT.
  • Consider: Awakening is a beginning…
  • Hold on to no-thing.
  • And trust me: teachers are just mailmen, it’s about the letters, not the mail(wo)man.
  • Adoration is silly and beside the point.

Unless of course, you wish to sleep on and remain in child-mode.